I'm setting goals for myself.  It's definitely what anyone who is grieving should do.  (Actually everyone should have some sort of goal, it gives you purpose.)  The only thing is - dealing with loss can send you into different directions.  I'm a little all over the place right now- but trying to focus.  A new career move is first on my list.  What that is remains to be seen.  I guess I will know when it happens.  Second on my list- travel.  California, Seattle (both for vacation and to see friends) Denver- not in the winter though...Arizona, Chicago and Toronto.  Not in that order - and probably not all this year either.  But we will be flying a lot - hopefully- for the next few years.  Also on the list- finding where I want to be.  I know many people would think I was crazy for moving again, (we literally just moved into our new house in June).  But things just aren't the same, and frankly- the house was an investment.  This move was temporary- (maybe not this temporary) but I have a yearning to be somewhere else and as soon as possible.  So as long as the market is right- we will sell.  The problem is where?  To be continued I guess...

So yes- many different directions- the key is finding which path to take and the ultimate destination...But I'm working on it. 

Xo

Michelle